The woman of a house faces difficulties when her husband drops his duties to watch a match between Barcelona and Real Madrid. Spoiled children wait for their mother to stuff their brains with lessons prescribed by the Education Ministry.For the young mother, her husband's decision is like a verdict to stop all pleasure in her life and the start of a torturous journey. Lucky is the girl who is blessed with an understanding husband who is cooperative and does not stay up watching late-night matches with friends, and finds him smiling in the morning, ready for his responsibilities without the perennial sentence "I am not in the mood." But luckiest is the woman blessed with an obedient child who listens to his teachers and enters home without throwing his bag on the nearest chair - a child who studies without the assistance of a private tutor or his mother's nagging.How many lucky women do we have in Kuwait who have understanding husbands and normal children like those in the past? I can almost hear you saying - oh not many, very few! The Kuwaiti woman is lost between meeting the needs of her house and her children whose brains are covered with fast food fat, for she must strive to help them succeed.An advice to every girl getting married is to place conditions before her future husband, such as to buy requirements for the house, take up the responsibility of processing transactions and preventing his brood from consuming excess fast food. If he does not do this, he must take up the task of at least teaching them. This is a very important advice, because if the woman does not do so, she will find herself confined all day during periods of final exams, losing her voice by screaming at children who enjoy tormenting her. She will find herself going around cooperative societies and citizen service centers, and time will fly until a day comes when the woman can hardly recognize herself when she looks in the mirror.The young woman in Kuwait is oppressed and the society should use its pressure tools, such as reminding of social traditions that honor the woman and distribute responsibilities between family members, including children. Young women deserve consideration before cases of marriage rejection increase, as divorce cases are on the rise. - Translated by Kuwait Times from Al-RaiBy Dr Khalid Al-Saleh