KUWAIT: During difficult circumstances that may affect people’s lives, some are forced to leave their homelands and families in search of better finances. However, this may come at the cost of emotional challenges, such as feelings of loneliness and alienation. Domestic labor is one of the most prevalent examples of this issue. Recognizing this group and the challenges they may face, and considering that in most cases the circumstances do not allow them to seek the help of psychologists to alleviate their mental state, Kuwait Times spoke to two domestic workers — Gretel and Davy — to learn what they do to alleviate the pain of separation and alienation.
In Kuwait, where a significant number of domestic workers reside away from their families, smartphones have played a crucial role in bridging distances, fostering connections and reducing feelings of loneliness. Despite the disheartening distance, Gretel is grateful for the revolution of smart devices that keep her in constant link with her family, which facilitates regular communication, providing emotional support.
"It is undeniably depressing to be away from my child and watch him grow through a screen, but I am always reminding myself that I am away from him for a reason,” she said. Through video calls, voice messages, and instant messaging applications, domestic workers can stay connected with their loved ones, offering a sense of presence despite physical separation. The ability to witness important milestones, such as birthdays or cultural festivities, uplifts their spirits and ensures they remain engaged in the lives of their families.
On her part, Davy mentioned the significant role that having children plays in the household where she works. There is a little girl who reminds her of her own daughter. Despite the limited connection between Davy and this girl, Davy takes care of her and worries about her a lot, because she reminds her of her own daughter. "My daughter is around the same age as this 8-year-old girl. One of the most beautiful moments I experience with this girl is when I wake her up from her nap after school so she can eat. I also enjoy the small conversations between us while she is preparing a snack while I finish some work in the kitchen,” said Davy.
She added that when she travels, she misses her a lot and always remembers her with a simple gift from her hometown. These individuals may not have the means to receive professional emotional and mental support from therapists, but they seek what helps and comforts them, whether through electronic communication or by forming bonds with people who can sometimes just be children that fill their hearts with a beautiful memory of those who they are separated from them due to circumstances.