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The power of patience
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Arriving at Miami International Airport after a long, tiring, and somewhat unpleasant journey, I wasn’t in the best shape. My usual optimism had taken a hit, especially when I saw the long line of passengers at passport control, with only three officers processing entries. I braced myself for a long wait and expected frustration.

To my surprise, the process was remarkably smooth. It took less than eight minutes for my turn to come. A single question, a picture, and I was ready to meet my son, who had come to welcome me. The officer, by the way, was all smiles throughout the entire process and ended with a warm “Welcome home!”

I share this story to highlight how situations can yield vastly different outcomes despite seemingly identical circumstances. As humans, we must resist the temptation to pre-judge situations or people based on their color, ethnicity, or origin.

Patience, though challenging at times, is key. When faced with a moment of frustration, taking a deep breath and calming the mind can shift your perspective. It’s essential to focus on the bigger picture and remember that there are always factors beyond our control.

The benefits of patience are undeniable. It helps reduce stress, improves decision-making, and fosters better relationships because we are less likely to act impulsively. It also allows us to stay calm and think clearly, even in difficult situations.

While many would agree that this is common sense, it’s something we often forget when emotions run high. Trust me, patience is not just a virtue—it is the essence of navigating life’s challenges with grace and peace.

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