By Monai Kraidees

KUWAIT: Most people today have become increasingly materialistic; the more they acquire, the more they desire. They are rarely satisfied with what they have, believing that their worth is tied to the price of their possessions rather than their intrinsic value. This mindset has driven people to take out loans and fall into debt just to keep up with others, often purchasing poor-quality products or engaging in activities they don’t enjoy, simply to project a certain lifestyle or imitate someone else.

Shahad Fahad, a 20-year-old student, shared an experience with Kuwait Times about her time at a university abroad. She was advised to remove all her jewelry for an interview to align with societal perspectives that differ from those in Kuwait. “In Kuwait, some people judge you based on the brands you wear, the car you drive or the area you live in. The more expensive you look, the more respect you get,” she explained.

Sara Bader, 48, commented on how Kuwaiti society has reached a point where appearance seems to outweigh actions. “Yes, it’s important to look put-together, but what’s more important is who you are as a person, how confident you are, how you carry yourself and how educated you are. In Kuwait, people often find it easier to buy things than to invest in themselves. Human nature tends to choose the easier path,” she said. Bader stressed that individuals should focus on personal growth and achieving their own goals, rather than following others. “You shouldn’t be a follower; you should be a leader,” she added.

Some people feel the need to mimic others to avoid feeling inferior. For example, Nora Bader, 17, said: “My cousin traveled to Spain, so I told my mother I want to go to Spain too.” When asked why, she replied, “My cousin isn’t better than me; why should she visit a country I haven’t been to?”

Psychologist Latifah Al-Hadhoud explained to Kuwait Times that materialism has always been a source of excitement. “Designer brands, expensive cars and a lavish lifestyle have always existed. What has changed is people’s perspectives, which have been influenced by social media,” she explained.

Hadhoud advised people to focus less on superficial appearances and more on inner qualities, noting that those who prioritize the shallow often fail to realize that, once the superficial is stripped away, there’s nothing left. “While it’s important to present yourself well in today’s society, this should never overshadow being true to yourself and who you are as a person,” she concluded.